Prove It Intensive: Frequently Asked Questions
One of the hardest parts of dealing with a difficult pattern, whether it's someone else's conduct or your own, is that it can be genuinely hard to describe clearly. You know something is happening. You can feel the pattern. But putting it into words precise enough to act on, or to document, is a different skill entirely. The Prove It Intensive was built specifically to close that gap.
What Is the Prove It Intensive?
The Prove It Intensive is a focused, two-session program, 90 minutes followed by 60 minutes, that produces a written behavioral pattern report. It's designed to take what feels like a vague, hard-to-articulate pattern of conduct and turn it into a clear, documented account of what's actually happening.
The name reflects exactly what it does: it helps you prove, in writing, what a pattern looks like, rather than leaving it as a feeling you can't quite pin down.
What Happens in the Two Sessions?
The first session, 90 minutes, is focused on a thorough exploration of the situation: the specific behaviors, the context, the history, and the details that matter. The second session, 60 minutes, builds on that groundwork, refining the picture and preparing the findings for the written report you'll receive afterward.
What Do I Actually Receive?
A written behavioral pattern report based on both sessions. This document lays out the pattern in clear, organized terms, useful for your own clarity, for conversations with an attorney, or in any other context where a documented account of behavior matters.
Who Is This For?
The Prove It Intensive tends to fit situations where clarity and documentation both matter: a conflict where you need to articulate a pattern precisely, a legal or family situation where a documented account of conduct is useful, or simply a case where you know something is wrong but haven't been able to name it accurately on your own.
It's also useful for people examining their own patterns, not just someone else's, since the same clarity that helps document another person's conduct can help someone see their own more accurately too.
How Is This Different From the Assessment & Action Plan?
The Assessment & Action Plan identifies your conflict pattern and builds a forward-looking plan for changing it. The Prove It Intensive is more focused on documentation itself, producing a written report of a specific pattern as it stands, which can be useful on its own or as a precursor to further work.
Is the Written Report a Legal Document?
The report is a behavioral pattern document, not a legal filing or a substitute for legal advice. Many clients use it alongside their attorney's work, but it isn't produced as, and shouldn't be treated as, formal legal documentation on its own.
How Much Does It Cost, and How Do I Book?
The Prove It Intensive is $895 for both sessions and the written report. Booking is available directly through Acuity scheduling at samiconsult.as.me/ProveItIntensive.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can the Prove It Intensive report be used in court? The report documents behavioral patterns in writing, but it isn't a legal filing. Whether and how it's used in a legal context is a question for your attorney, and many clients share it with counsel directly.
Do I need to already know what pattern I'm dealing with before starting? No. Part of the value of the Intensive is helping clarify a pattern that may currently feel vague or hard to articulate. Come with what you know, even if it isn't fully organized yet.
Is this only for documenting someone else's behavior? No. Some clients use the Prove It Intensive to get clarity on their own patterns, not just another person's conduct.
How soon can I schedule the two sessions? Sessions are typically scheduled close together to keep the process focused. Exact timing depends on availability through Acuity.
What This Comes Down To
Clarity is often the hardest part of dealing with a difficult pattern, not the resolution. The Prove It Intensive exists to give you that clarity in writing: a documented, organized account of what's actually happening, so you're working from facts instead of a feeling you couldn't quite explain before.
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